Webcam Grrls

totally got you and i hate those “Pro” camsite Girls and btw i hate Mfc cause girls there are there like u said only for the money and stay hours for some mechanical masturbation bullshit lol…

I do hang a lot on free webcam site…cause its fun to fuck my girl and have other watching especially when we can share it with some peeps (Kinda we’re all sharing something (in that world its pretty rare lol) , i been on chaturbate a lot lately cause there most of the people are just super sexual people that like to share more than just a financial transaction, and thats the only site where u can be just an exhibitionist…

Ok u got to see that cam thing not from the pornstar side where everything involve money at the end, now days everybody watch porn, we’re the porn generation, we like to share talk, masturbate, laugh, (smoke a lil thing) and and thats the way it is…thats the reason i like chaturbate cause most of people on there are not faking some orgasm moaning like crazy or sucking on a banana

So yea it’s disgusting when u look at the bad side… but it’s not cause some peeps do it for bad reason that it’s all wrong, You Have To See the whole Thing not just the TokenWhores…

Like for Exemple French Director John B Root has shot a movie while he was broadcasting on a camsite and the performers were in a house for a week and they were online all the time asking what peeps like to see and etc…Btw u can follow Nikita Bellucci (She’s Badass & french) u can find her on twitter she does free shows two times in the week i like to hang with peeps like that when i got time…

And of course them grrls that are all day every day on got a problem they’re addicted…We Called em TokenWhore…And It’s Sad for theme cause like you said they got no life

As someone who has been an openly declared patron of camgirl sites for 11 or 12 years now and has become “off-camera” friends – spoken with them via GChat, Facebook, personal email or even on the phone, when they weren’t working – with at least a dozen from Arizona to Romania, I can answer pretty much all of your questions. Obviously, the answers vary from model to model, but I can give you a pretty good aggregate based on my completely nonscientific sampling.

1.)
Q: How do you grrls do it? … Sitting at home all day/night in front of your computer chatting away with strangers, getting naked, masturbating and acting like you really care? … If I get bored within 10-15 minutes, how do you do it for 6-8 hours a day? How many times can you deal with the same questions… Are your tits real? What size are you tits? Do you squirt? And my favorite, Do you like anal? How do you grrls put up with this ALL day??? The money can’t be all that good or is it?

A: Well, first of all, it’s very rare for a cam model in the English-speaking world to put in a full six to eight hours a day. There are places (mostly in the former Soviet bloc) where it’s pretty much their job: They clock in and clock out. Those models tended to be the norm back in the early 20-aughts, but here in 2014, most models from most sites will log on when they feel like it, stay logged in as long as there’s work, and log off when they’re tired. I’ve seen American models be logged in for upward of 24 hours (usually to win one of the daily contests that some sites offer). I’ve seen American models log in and out within 15 minutes because they got their first private, earned their money for the day and are done.

But it should also be noted that not ALL successful cam models masturbate on camera. Some don’t even take their underwear off. One of my off-camera friends – whom I’m flying out to Europe specifically to meet in “real life” this summer or the next – is a Polish model who would not show her nipples, but she is a former dancer who would (when she was a cam model, which she’s not anymore) strip down to panties and a hand bra and dance. She told me she WOULD masturbate with her hands down her panties in private, but she basically never did in her eight months as a cam model.

And for basically all models, they’re not “acting as if they care.” Of course, they’re humans. At the first site which got my money – Flirt4Free, which I still sometimes visit, although now I’ve mostly switched over to MFC – there was an Austrian model (she’s not there anymore) whose shtick was being kind of an ice queen. She would lie on her bed with her underwear on and stare off into space. (I later learned she was watching TV until she got a private.) She would answer those questions – no, large, no and yes – and otherwise basically just say, “Take me private and find out.” One day, after a couple years of visiting her room, I started chatting with her about Chinese astrology, a subject in which it turns out she had a great interest. Before that week was out, I had her personal email and Skype and a standing offer for private Skype shows at the extremely cut-rate price of $2/minute. She also specifically asked me to come to her F4F room and keep her company. She’s not on F4F anymore, but she and I still talk now, two years later, and when I told her that my planned European trip would definitely include Vienna, she told me to let her know when I’d be in town so she could take me out for schnitzel and beer.

Back in the late ’90s and early 20-aughts, when the cam modelling industry was in its infancy, there were AOL chat rooms. Cybersex was a very common outcome of logging into a chat room, and both women and men would spend HOURS in front of a computer waiting to get some cybersex. For free.

How do they answer the same questions all day? How does a telemarketer or customer service rep answer the same questions all day? And yes, a successful cam model makes WAY more than a telemarketer or customer service rep, And because cam models usually masturbate, unlike a telemarketer or customer service rep, cam models are having fun, too. And people are almost always glad to talk with them.

2.)
Q: Second, if you are online for 6-8 hours a day and 6-7 days a week… How do you have time for a real relationship with a man/woman? How do you have the time for something honest? Do you have the time? Does it matter? You spend your day sucking and fucking a dildo… When was the last time you had some real cock? When was the last time you made love with real partner? If you’re in a relationship, do they know and care about what you are doing?

A: Again, very few models in the former NATO/SEATO countries are online that much. In the former Soviet bloc, it is very difficult to do this for an occupation AND ALSO have a regular relationship, for the same reason it would be difficult for you to have a 40-hour-a-week job where there are only men in your office and then meet women.

Here in the West, though, it’s not uncommon for a female cam model to have a “day job” and other activities. I know one cam model in Los Angeles who volunteers for her Catholic church. I know of at least two cam models in LA who have or have had during their camming careers boyfriends, and one American (I can’t remember where) who was married. Do the significant others/spouses/jobs/churches know what they’re doing when they’re moonlighting? It varies from model to model. Generally speaking, though, SOs/spouses probably do, and jobs/churches probably don’t. The SOs/spouses are either OK with it, or they’re not going to be SOs/spouses for very long.

That said, when was the last time you had “something honest?” Well, is cybersex where you have true feelings and are genuinely attracted to somebody “honest?” And many cam models are recent divorcees who were getting “real cock” that wasn’t “honest,” and they’re exploring their sexuality. The Catholic I know married her high school sweetheart and went into camming when that ended after years of her cheating on her. How exactly are we defining “honest” and “real?”

3.)
Q: Third, are you a “porn star”? How do you see yourself and your job? Do you think you are better than or like a grrl who shoots for sites/movies? Is this what you want out of your life? Do you ever question what you are doing and who you’re doing it for? What do you think of the men that are your “fans”? I just wonder what the long term effects will be for some really cute, sexy, smart grrls. This is relatively new to the world and only time will tell. I’m sure I won’t be around to see.

A: How the model sees herself varies from model to model, and that’s a fair question to ask and really LISTEN to the answer. I’ve known models who considered themselves akin to prostitutes. I’ve known models who considered themselves superior to strippers.

But as an overall, do most cam models consider themselves exploited? They do because OF COURSE THEY’RE EXPLOITED! On the other hand, isn’t basically EVERYBODY – from billionaires to minimum wage workers – exploited? As Bob Dylan said, “You’re gonna have to serve somebody.”

How they feel about the men who are their “fans” varies, not based on the man, but based on the model. Again, Martina had contempt for most of her fans, but not for me. And now I’m not her fan. I’m her friend.

And with all due respect to you and to the question about whether this is what they want out of their life, or whether they ever question it: “Fuck you. That’s my answer.” That is seriously insulting that you would even ask those questions. Hey, do you ever question whether being a blogger is what you want out of your life and what you’re doing here? Fuck you. That’s her answer.

4.)
Q: Fourth, “Are you not entertained?” … Some grrls understand this and do a great job of entertaining the viewer/fans. Some grrls have NO clue and wonder why they don’t make BIG money. Some simple advice…

A: First, that’s not a question. Second, let me tell you a quick story: When I was in my senior year of college, I became a nightly regular at a nearby Steak ‘n’ Shake. I got to know all the waitstaff. Most of them were 19, 20, 21-year-old girls who were in college themselves and very friendly. One was a 40-something lesbian who always seemed cranky and angry. She told me one night, “I tried to be like these other girls, and I found out I got bigger tips when I was myself than when I was faking being friendly.”

By your own admission, you are not a cam model, and you clearly don’t know what it’s like being a cam model. So again, with respect, take your advice and shove it and shut your damn trap. What works for Martina might not work for Kayla, the Southern Californian model who called me at 3:00 a.m. crying because of something I said. Know when you know what you’re talking about, and when you don’t know, shut your damn trap.

5.)
Q: Fifth, private shows, Skype shows and so on… Explain to me why would any guy pay for this? I just don’t understand the whole idea of paying extra and getting what? I’m NOT a normal guy & I know this cuz I have the best, hottest, sexiest grrls in my life and get what ever I want for free. I just wonder why having a one on one show is worth it? Maybe someday I will have to pay and find out.

A: Yeah, and you can go to a strip club and – usually for less money – get someone to put her tits in your face. You can go to a prostitute and – for not much more money – have actual, real, physical, in person sex. You can download porn for free and see the same thing. No cam girl can answer this question for you. I can’t answer this question for you. Only you can answer why you’re here. If you’re not sure, maybe it’s time you stop asking other people this question and start asking yourself.