I do NOT wanna piss anyone off, I promise!! I’m just curious. I like to check into MyFreeCams.com once in a while. Basically I like to see what grrls are doing online when I’m procrastinating and NOT doing my work. I never really say anything cuz I’m too shy and scared. I’ve had a few thoughts and wondered if I could share them with you…
First, How do you grrls do it? Seriously, how do you do it? Sitting at home all day/night in front of your computer chatting away with strangers, getting naked, masturbating and acting like you really care???? How do you do this?? If I get bored within 10-15 minutes, how do you do it for 6-8 hours a day? How many times can you deal with the same questions… Are your tits real? What size are you tits? Do you squirt? And my favorite, Do you like anal? How do you grrls put up with this ALL day??? The money can’t be all that good or is it?
Second, if you are online for 6-8 hours a day and 6-7 days a week… How do you have time for a real relationship with a man/woman? How do you have the time for something honest? Do you have the time? Does it matter? You spend your day sucking and fucking a dildo… When was the last time you had some real cock? When was the last time you made love with real partner? If you’re in a relationship, do they know and care about what you are doing?
Third, are you a “porn star”? How do you see yourself and your job? Do you think you are better than or like a grrl who shoots for sites/movies? Is this what you want out of your life? Do you ever question what you are doing and who you’re doing it for? What do you think of the men that are your “fans”? I just wonder what the long term effects will be for some really cute, sexy, smart grrls. This is relatively new to the world and only time will tell. I’m sure I won’t be around to see.
Fourth, “Are you not entertained?”… Love that line from a the movie Gladiator. Some grrls understand this and do a great job of entertaining the viewer/fans. Some grrls have NO clue and wonder why they don’t make BIG money. Some simple advice… Get good lighting, be creative, be the best tease you can be, speak clearly (even if you barely speak english) and most of all have fun!!! If you’re not having fun at least act like you are. Some grrls sit there and look miserable and depressed. Its NOT fun to look at and I’m sure ALL your potential customers feel the same way. Put down the iPhone, look up, smile, show us your nice tits, be happy & have some fun!
Fifth, private shows, Skype shows and so on… Explain to me why would any guy pay for this? I just don’t understand the whole idea of paying extra and getting what? I’m NOT a normal guy & I know this cuz I have the best, hottest, sexiest grrls in my life and get what ever I want for free. I just wonder why having a one on one show is worth it? Maybe someday I will have to pay and find out.
Last, I know these are dumb questions and thoughts. This is why I can’t get off watching you grrls. Its cuz these crazy questions run through my head the whole time. I know I’m a lost cause when it comes to webcam grrls. I do like a bunch of the grrls and I would love to work with many of them. They all seem very nice, but I do wonder if its really worth it. Only time will tell. In the meantime… Grrls if you see my screen name on your computer… Just know that I’m a big fan and I have lots of questions that I will never get the chance to ask.
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totally got you and i hate those “Pro” camsite Girls and btw i hate Mfc cause girls there are there like u said only for the money and stay hours for some mechanical masturbation bullshit lol…
I do hang a lot on free webcam site…cause its fun to fuck my girl and have other watching especially when we can share it with some peeps (Kinda we’re all sharing something (in that world its pretty rare lol) , i been on chaturbate a lot lately cause there most of the people are just super sexual people that like to share more than just a financial transaction, and thats the only site where u can be just an exhibitionist…
Ok u got to see that cam thing not from the pornstar side where everything involve money at the end, now days everybody watch porn, we’re the porn generation, we like to share talk, masturbate, laugh, (smoke a lil thing) and and thats the way it is…thats the reason i like chaturbate cause most of people on there are not faking some orgasm moaning like crazy or sucking on a banana
So yea it’s disgusting when u look at the bad side… but it’s not cause some peeps do it for bad reason that it’s all wrong, You Have To See the whole Thing not just the TokenWhores…
Like for Exemple French Director John B Root has shot a movie while he was broadcasting on a camsite and the performers were in a house for a week and they were online all the time asking what peeps like to see and etc…Btw u can follow Nikita Bellucci (She’s Badass & french) u can find her on twitter she does free shows two times in the week i like to hang with peeps like that when i got time…
And of course them grrls that are all day every day on got a problem they’re addicted…We Called em TokenWhore…And It’s Sad for theme cause like you said they got no life
Amen To This no Fap Tax Allowed !
As someone who has been an openly declared patron of camgirl sites for 11 or 12 years now and has become “off-camera” friends – spoken with them via GChat, Facebook, personal email or even on the phone, when they weren’t working – with at least a dozen from Arizona to Romania, I can answer pretty much all of your questions. Obviously, the answers vary from model to model, but I can give you a pretty good aggregate based on my completely nonscientific sampling.
Q: How do you grrls do it? … Sitting at home all day/night in front of your computer chatting away with strangers, getting naked, masturbating and acting like you really care? … If I get bored within 10-15 minutes, how do you do it for 6-8 hours a day? How many times can you deal with the same questions… Are your tits real? What size are you tits? Do you squirt? And my favorite, Do you like anal? How do you grrls put up with this ALL day??? The money can’t be all that good or is it?
A: Well, first of all, it’s very rare for a cam model in the English-speaking world to put in a full six to eight hours a day. There are places (mostly in the former Soviet bloc) where it’s pretty much their job: They clock in and clock out. Those models tended to be the norm back in the early 20-aughts, but here in 2014, most models from most sites will log on when they feel like it, stay logged in as long as there’s work, and log off when they’re tired. I’ve seen American models be logged in for upward of 24 hours (usually to win one of the daily contests that some sites offer). I’ve seen American models log in and out within 15 minutes because they got their first private, earned their money for the day and are done.
But it should also be noted that not ALL successful cam models masturbate on camera. Some don’t even take their underwear off. One of my off-camera friends – whom I’m flying out to Europe specifically to meet in “real life” this summer or the next – is a Polish model who would not show her nipples, but she is a former dancer who would (when she was a cam model, which she’s not anymore) strip down to panties and a hand bra and dance. She told me she WOULD masturbate with her hands down her panties in private, but she basically never did in her eight months as a cam model.
And for basically all models, they’re not “acting as if they care.” Of course, they’re humans. At the first site which got my money – Flirt4Free, which I still sometimes visit, although now I’ve mostly switched over to MFC – there was an Austrian model (she’s not there anymore) whose shtick was being kind of an ice queen. She would lie on her bed with her underwear on and stare off into space. (I later learned she was watching TV until she got a private.) She would answer those questions – no, large, no and yes – and otherwise basically just say, “Take me private and find out.” One day, after a couple years of visiting her room, I started chatting with her about Chinese astrology, a subject in which it turns out she had a great interest. Before that week was out, I had her personal email and Skype and a standing offer for private Skype shows at the extremely cut-rate price of $2/minute. She also specifically asked me to come to her F4F room and keep her company. She’s not on F4F anymore, but she and I still talk now, two years later, and when I told her that my planned European trip would definitely include Vienna, she told me to let her know when I’d be in town so she could take me out for schnitzel and beer.
Back in the late ’90s and early 20-aughts, when the cam modelling industry was in its infancy, there were AOL chat rooms. Cybersex was a very common outcome of logging into a chat room, and both women and men would spend HOURS in front of a computer waiting to get some cybersex. For free.
How do they answer the same questions all day? How does a telemarketer or customer service rep answer the same questions all day? And yes, a successful cam model makes WAY more than a telemarketer or customer service rep, And because cam models usually masturbate, unlike a telemarketer or customer service rep, cam models are having fun, too. And people are almost always glad to talk with them.
Q: Second, if you are online for 6-8 hours a day and 6-7 days a week… How do you have time for a real relationship with a man/woman? How do you have the time for something honest? Do you have the time? Does it matter? You spend your day sucking and fucking a dildo… When was the last time you had some real cock? When was the last time you made love with real partner? If you’re in a relationship, do they know and care about what you are doing?
A: Again, very few models in the former NATO/SEATO countries are online that much. In the former Soviet bloc, it is very difficult to do this for an occupation AND ALSO have a regular relationship, for the same reason it would be difficult for you to have a 40-hour-a-week job where there are only men in your office and then meet women.
Here in the West, though, it’s not uncommon for a female cam model to have a “day job” and other activities. I know one cam model in Los Angeles who volunteers for her Catholic church. I know of at least two cam models in LA who have or have had during their camming careers boyfriends, and one American (I can’t remember where) who was married. Do the significant others/spouses/jobs/churches know what they’re doing when they’re moonlighting? It varies from model to model. Generally speaking, though, SOs/spouses probably do, and jobs/churches probably don’t. The SOs/spouses are either OK with it, or they’re not going to be SOs/spouses for very long.
That said, when was the last time you had “something honest?” Well, is cybersex where you have true feelings and are genuinely attracted to somebody “honest?” And many cam models are recent divorcees who were getting “real cock” that wasn’t “honest,” and they’re exploring their sexuality. The Catholic I know married her high school sweetheart and went into camming when that ended after years of her cheating on her. How exactly are we defining “honest” and “real?”
Q: Third, are you a “porn star”? How do you see yourself and your job? Do you think you are better than or like a grrl who shoots for sites/movies? Is this what you want out of your life? Do you ever question what you are doing and who you’re doing it for? What do you think of the men that are your “fans”? I just wonder what the long term effects will be for some really cute, sexy, smart grrls. This is relatively new to the world and only time will tell. I’m sure I won’t be around to see.
A: How the model sees herself varies from model to model, and that’s a fair question to ask and really LISTEN to the answer. I’ve known models who considered themselves akin to prostitutes. I’ve known models who considered themselves superior to strippers.
But as an overall, do most cam models consider themselves exploited? They do because OF COURSE THEY’RE EXPLOITED! On the other hand, isn’t basically EVERYBODY – from billionaires to minimum wage workers – exploited? As Bob Dylan said, “You’re gonna have to serve somebody.”
How they feel about the men who are their “fans” varies, not based on the man, but based on the model. Again, Martina had contempt for most of her fans, but not for me. And now I’m not her fan. I’m her friend.
And with all due respect to you and to the question about whether this is what they want out of their life, or whether they ever question it: “Fuck you. That’s my answer.” That is seriously insulting that you would even ask those questions. Hey, do you ever question whether being a blogger is what you want out of your life and what you’re doing here? Fuck you. That’s her answer.
Q: Fourth, “Are you not entertained?” … Some grrls understand this and do a great job of entertaining the viewer/fans. Some grrls have NO clue and wonder why they don’t make BIG money. Some simple advice…
A: First, that’s not a question. Second, let me tell you a quick story: When I was in my senior year of college, I became a nightly regular at a nearby Steak ‘n’ Shake. I got to know all the waitstaff. Most of them were 19, 20, 21-year-old girls who were in college themselves and very friendly. One was a 40-something lesbian who always seemed cranky and angry. She told me one night, “I tried to be like these other girls, and I found out I got bigger tips when I was myself than when I was faking being friendly.”
By your own admission, you are not a cam model, and you clearly don’t know what it’s like being a cam model. So again, with respect, take your advice and shove it and shut your damn trap. What works for Martina might not work for Kayla, the Southern Californian model who called me at 3:00 a.m. crying because of something I said. Know when you know what you’re talking about, and when you don’t know, shut your damn trap.
Q: Fifth, private shows, Skype shows and so on… Explain to me why would any guy pay for this? I just don’t understand the whole idea of paying extra and getting what? I’m NOT a normal guy & I know this cuz I have the best, hottest, sexiest grrls in my life and get what ever I want for free. I just wonder why having a one on one show is worth it? Maybe someday I will have to pay and find out.
A: Yeah, and you can go to a strip club and – usually for less money – get someone to put her tits in your face. You can go to a prostitute and – for not much more money – have actual, real, physical, in person sex. You can download porn for free and see the same thing. No cam girl can answer this question for you. I can’t answer this question for you. Only you can answer why you’re here. If you’re not sure, maybe it’s time you stop asking other people this question and start asking yourself.
Also, FYI? “I’m NOT a normal guy & I know this cuz I have the best, hottest, sexiest grrls in my life and get what ever I want for free.” Captain… sensors are detecting toxic levels of douche.
Wow, do i sense a bit of bitterness? Worried that all these girls are taking money out of the pockets of the ‘pro’ studios like yours? Seems like it.
I’m surprised that as a guy who works in the porn biz you are not more supportive of these girls, afterall there are a lot of really hot ones you could one day hire. Honestly i bet a lot of them make more money than you do. Amateur porn has always been a very popular thing. There are 3 main type of camgirls, Pornstars who cam to make a little extra, pro-am girls who cam and also do shoots for porn websites, and then total amateurs who just do it from home and that’s it.
I’ve worked in the porn biz for the past 15 years or so, and i’ve worked with and know a lot of pro-am swinger couples and amateur girls. I know a lot of the girls who are on mfc, and chaturbate. The girls who truly make the big money are NOT the pornstars, it’s the regular girls at home who do, that is if they are sexy and have a great personality and know what they are doing.
I won’t spam and names, but there is a girl on chaturbate who i know personally, her cam name rhymes with ‘Tonic69’. She’s young, fit, and has a very bubbly and likeable personality. She regularily makes more than a grand a day. You can see this just from watching how many token’s she’s getting. She usually sets a goal at around 2000 tokens, the girls earn 5 cents per token, so 2000 tokens = $100. She will hit that goal 10-20x a day every time she is on for more than a few hours. She does have a boyfriend who does not appear on cam, and i’m sure it does affect her relationship as well as her life , but i would also assume he’s rather OK with it, seeing as she’s probably feeding his ass.
You might say $1000 a day isn’t that much, well there are days she makes a lot more, and some of course where she makes less, or doesn’t work, but think about it. She never has the leave the comfort of her own home, doesn’t have to work for anyone else, answer to anyone else, sit in traffic, spend money on gas, clothes, etc.. I made some decent money over the years, and i’ve watched a lot of these girls. I’d say that of all the girls doing it that only 10% of them or less really know what they are doing. The key is personality, it’s not just about being hot looking, or shoving toys or cocks in their holes. They MUST know how to talk to the crowd, keep them engaged etc.. Only a few really know how to do it, or have the kind of magnetic personality. A perfect example of that is all the Euro and Romanian girls.. i watch them sometimes. SUPER hot girls, doing all kinds of nasty things to themselves, yet they never get the tokens that english speaking girls get, and it’s because they don’t/can’t chat, or engage the crowd.
As for the guys who pay. I’m with you on that, i find that aspect of it all pretty amazing. I have watched guys who are regular fans of some girls tipping them thousands upon thousands of dollars. And for what? vapour! you are tossing your money literally out the window! just to get your wank on.. At least with porn websites you can download vids and pics and keep it, but on live cams they are just paying to impress the girls. The girls course see these types as total saps, or ‘marks’ as hookers call them, and milk them for all they are worth. Why not? lol.
But anyway, yes, the girls who know what they are doing can and usually do make a lot of money. Then of course i’m sure some just do it for fun, or are just natural exhibitionists or sluts and want to show off.
On the flip side. One could ask you similar questions regarding your site and content. I joined your site because of one model i like one it. And after going through the site, i quickly became very bored. I dislike black and white photography, especially when it’s done just to be ‘arty’ as it seems almost all your b&w shoots are. Further to that, i HATE noise and other effects being added to photos. You also seem to have way over used the lipstick or makeup smudged all over girls faces thing. It’s tired. Really, your site would be so much better if you just shot all the girls in normal lighting, in color and didn’t so all the silly photoshop post processing to the pics. You have a few ‘normal’ looking shoots like that, and they are excellent, but not enough. Also, your photosets are all too small. There should be at least a couple hundred pics per shoot. That’s my two cents.